Tuesday 15 October 2013

Rooftops, riads and the right way to kill a chicken, in Fez, Morocco.

This weekend made the shortlist for the best ever introduction to a new place: walking into a gorgeous Moroccan riad to find my sister, who I haven't seen since April, glowing from a 3 month adventure around Nepal and Indonesia, waiting for me with a pot of mint tea. After significant badgering of our parents, Mols came out and visited me 3 days before her new term started at LSE. What a trooper. We explored the medina, did an amazing cookery workshop and had some serious rooftop catch up sessions, and I couldn't have asked for a better weekend with my number one lady.

The medina (or 'old city') of Fez, Morocco, is said to be the best preserved in the entire Arab world. As we wound our way through its heart, the coiled streets hummed with activity. Afternoon light filtered over the high stone walls and shone a soft gold onto a labyrinth of narrow passage-ways, towering keyhole doorways and leather workshops, and the smell of dye and dust hung heavy in the air. Every corner seemed to reveal a new reward for our curiosity- we found carved doors marking the burial place of Sufi mystics, where pilgrims still came to pay tribute and pray. We saw tight circles of women holding babies aloft wrapped in white cloth, chatting rapidly in local dialect, and the late sunlight caught the swirling dust and gave them all halos; their children really looked like angels at that golden hour. Or a tiny souk where lavender, carob and orange blossom honey was piled high around a little courtyard, and we knew this place had hardly changed in the last one thousand years. The whole place felt heavy with history, and even the donkeys, the taxis of the old medina, seemed to have this air of confidence, of permanence that comes from over a millennia of plodding stoically through the same tangle of alleyways.

Our foray into Moroccan cookery began when we ducked through a nondescript doorway tucked down a side street, and entered the beautiful open courtyard of a traditional home, or 'riad'. Waiting there was our family for the night, and we exchanged smiles and hugs with four sisters and their two friends, the latter both fluent in Arabic, English and French, and who helped translate between us. We decided on our dishes and entered the street, pushing our way through the gathered throngs of the local market, headed for wooden carts laden with a rainbow of towering fruits and vegetables; giant orange squash, flowering zucchini and eggplant for our vegetable tagine, along with a mound of spices: ground ginger, pepper, saffron and turmeric. After some passionate haggling with the stall holder over an enormous pumpkin, we left with overflowing bags for a well-earned price. Our chicken cous-cous got a little more emotional, however. First lesson of the evening: please don't name your dinner as it flaps innocently around the butchers shop. Jeremiah-Flynn was tenderly marinated with the residual guilt of a recovering vegetarian, and I promise you that does nothing for the flavor of the dish. 

For the next four hours the house seemed to burst with a colorful collage of vegetable peelings, simmering pots and seven women's worth of laughter. We translated jokes in a mish-mash of French, English and local dialect, at first with veritable attempts to learn each other's language, before we realized that my cave-man hand gestures and pitiful Arabic abilities were far more entertaining. Laughing (again) at my chopping skills (like a toddler maniacally mashing a banana with a knife) I finally learnt the Moroccan way of using ones thumb as a kind of chopping board: creating leverage between vegetable and knife, slicing down, then pulling away just before your appendage adds some extra meat to the pot. (A skill hard enough to grasp, and even harder to explain in writing, so please do not attempt this based on such an inadequate description). 

My respect for the women around me grew as the evening progressed, especially after a particularly strenuous bread kneading session which left me ruddy-faced, slightly sweaty and marveling the deft hands of Maryam as she created perfect pillows of semolina dough on a slab of wood. We carried the loaves to the local bakery and watched them rise in a oven hewn roughly into whitewashed stone, a bundle of smoldering kindling at the back creating flickering amber light that played across our faces. The air smelled like pure comfort. Maryam pulled in a deep breath, smiled, and promised us that nothing would come close to the taste of our little loaves, fresh from the oven. Later, over a table groaning with the night's efforts, we pulled apart the still-warm packages and dunked them victoriously into our tagine; a beautiful stack of vegetables slow cooked in a traditional terra-cotta pot brimming with crushed tomato and spices that warmed your insides. Preserved lemons and green olives decorated the plates like colorful jewels. Our unfortunate chicken, Jeremiah, sat proudly aside little dishes of charred eggplant and green pepper, simmered with garlic and tomato and served with cous-cous that can only taste that marvelous when one is sitting cross legged in a Moroccan riad, smelling of garlic, with bleeding thumbs, (I never learnt), and in glorious disbelief that the magic travel trifecta had occurred: good friends, loud laughter, and good food. 

We gave our weary stomachs some rest after dinner and climbed to the rooftop. The winking lights of ancient city spread out like a blanket that met the silver studded heavens. There was something about the warm air that made conversation feel easy; and so a Jew, two Muslims and I (still undecided), stood under the stars and explored our religious identities; questioning delicately, curiously, learning from each other and concluding that, under the gaze of the expansive sky, our bellies happy with home-cooked food, any differences between us really seemed so very small.

When I step off the ship, I always hope for those experiences that make you feel both at home, comfortable, but simultaneously in awe of a place and it's people. While we are sailing, the familiarity of our floating home is constantly augmented by new conversations, chance encounters where you can make a new friend in an instant, and people who continue to inspire you with their ambition and intelligence. Now, as the warm winds of the African west coast ruffle through our textbooks, there is a tangible feeling of excitement in the air. We are ready to be tested, enamored and inspired by what lays ahead of us, as we sail onwards to Ghana, and to new adventures abound.

Wednesday 9 October 2013

The playground in my backyard: Ireland, how has it taken this long for us to become friends? 

 Our first night in the city, and our feet beat the Dublin streets, a more familiar territory for us all than the neolithic monuments and ancient tombs of our guided tour that day. The city lights spin slightly through a soft haze of Jameson and warm summer air, and with the warm smiles of strangers who march over the bridge with us towards this vibrant playground of a city. Dublin just won at Gaelic football (?) (lack of detail indicative of lack of knowledge, not my area of expertise), and all I know is that the city itself is dancing. The pub floors groan as a hundred bodies jump in time to an old Irish folk song, glasses clinking, sweat dripping, their shoes sticking to the reassuring layer of spilled Guinness which coats the decks and smells like Friday night. Smiles emerge beneath upper lips kissed by a rich, chocolatey foam from the first hurried sip of a freshly pulled pint, and arms extend like branches above the throbbing crowd as each group's chosen guardian attempts to bring back his prize to waiting friends. Rotund men in football shirts transform into graceful ballerinas as they tip-toe their overflowing vessels through the throngs, arms aloft, only to be knocked aside by a gaggle of girls, heads thrown back in song, a forceable chain of linked arms and high heels. 

My observations falter as I am whisked into a whirlwind jig with a man three times my age (and size), and as the song finishes he pats my back with his sizeable paw and shouts amiably into my ear "Welcome to Dublin!". And I laugh because in London, I might not be best pleased with being twirled and lifted by an inebriated, sweatier version of my father but here in Ireland the people are just so wonderful, so full of character, that you can't help but fall in love with them all just a little bit. 

We spill into the street and take a deep breath by the banks of the Liffy before beginning the hunt for our own grease-laden weakness; the type which only resembles real food between the hours of three and five in the morning on a weekend, and necessitates a sole, single slurred utterance to bring it into contact with ravenous mouths. "Chips" "Kebab" "Burger" we cry, and stampede into the Dublin night, wailing half-heard versions of "Molly Mallone" and "Whisky in the Jar" in botched Irish accents and performing spontaneous street-side Riverdance. But the Irish still stand drinks in hand, cheering us on, laughing, welcoming us to their city. And if that isn't exceptional national character, I don't know what is. 

The more salubrious part of Ireland involved a wonderful visit from Marge and Parge; a real treat, as I think I miss them more when I've seen them recently enough to really remember just how much I enjoy their company. When we spend six months apart at a time, my brain tends to downplay such things to avoid a sort of continuous nostalgia which is no good for getting things done.  We spent quality time together the way Mendozas do best: eating our way around the Emerald Isle, in constant rapture about how fresh the food was and how genuinely friendly everyone was. I think we might lose my Mum to Ireland, she is convinced after several seafood dinners and a multitude of gourmet farm shops that this is the place for her. She can park her rusty orange camper van next to the pier, take long walks in the evening sunshine and sing songs about how fresh the prawns are and how well the kale grows till the sun sets over the Irish Sea. What a life! Our impressions may have been biased by the heat wave that hit that weekend, but I'm still convinced that Ireland is a place I've been crazy not to visit until now, considering we've been neighbors my whole life. We got only the smallest taste of the kindness of the people, the wonderful food and gorgeous landscapes. 

After Marge and Parge left, Emma roused me on three hours of sleep to go and explore the cute seaside village of Nowth...or at least, I think I can justify calling it cute, because we got about as far as a row of little independent restaurants serving fresh seafood two minutes from the train station, and were immediately distracted by late-afternoon shellfish and white wine, the fresh sea breeze whipping our hair into our mouths as we tried to elegantly yet efficiently pick apart crab shells, while also expressing our sincere appreciation for the food. The whole scene was pretty idyllic, a sunny day, seagulls cawing, local prawns, not much else to do but sit and soak it all in until it was time to take the train back to the boat. That we did, and with the predictable mixture of reluctance to leave and excitement to go, we were afloat the Atlantic once more